Wedding - a Picture of Heaven on Earth
06 Jun 2010
It’s the morning after…as mother of the groom I can sit and look back and cherish the moments that brought us to this day.
That very busy, either extremely happy or obnoxiously angry little boy has grown into a mighty man of valor. There’s never been a prouder mama.
C Gilbert and C Wright became one today.
Groomsmen decked out in tuxes with “body guard necessities” - having way too much fun - and in all their manly frivolity each man demonstrated his strength of character. As I watched each young man line up beside my son - my mind went back through our ’stories.’ Precious memories full of laughter and…worries! Will these guys ever grow up? Today proved - they have grown into protectors, providers, and powerful men who are changing this world for the better.
The beautiful bridesmaids - including my two daughters - graced the decor with their beauty - their little black dresses - and their 4 1/2″ red heels! How do you describe lovely when it is more magnificent than words? I know my girls were there out of a pure love for their big brother and their desire to prove to C that C is worth loving on!
Some told me the most cherished moment was when Ch surprised Ca during the ceremony as she sang with a heart full of pure love, a voice filled with sweet strength and passion - a song that she wrote - for my baby boy who is now all hers…
It was then that I knew this gorgeous woman was perfect for my son.
It was a moment when Heaven’s doors opened wide and the Glory of God shone around this beautiful couple. The back drop could not have been more glorious: lake, pine trees, lodge, rock work, a few billowy clouds, and a very bright blue sky. God has His ways of smiling on us, doesn’t He?
Some said the most precious moment was when the mother of the groom and the groom danced. How do you look into the bright brown eyes of your son whom you would die for, who you have sacrified for, and who you have given your all to? What do you say? How do you release all that you have held onto so dearly? Those memories? Those naughty moments? Or those desperate times when he has been your strength, your support, your reason to keep living? How do you fall into his strong protective arms - wanting to stay there forever - and then realizing…it is for this very moment that you have nurtured him! Let’s dance! And let him go…
Some said the crowning moment was when one brother ministered so deeply to his little brother - it was redemption at its best. How do you take tragic memories and watch the Hand of God turn it into something so beautiful that only tears can describe what is going on? His beautiful bride held him…it is as it should be…
This is right. Afterall, God is the one who designed marriage. He knew this young man before the creation of the world would be united in oneness to a beautiful young woman who is perfect for him. Heaven came down and glory filled our souls.
And I got to be a part…thank you, my Jesus.
